THE BIGGEST EVENT

There are many things in this world….Spiritual, sports, politics etc. etc. that keep all the bongs scattered throughout the globe, united and tied up together…Be it the works of the master Ray, or the classic square drives of the Maharaja, or be it the world renowned delicacies of K C Das and Bhim Nag or be it the all-time romance oozing out from the charismatic Uttam Kumar or from the golden voice of Manna Dey. But these are multiple things to be considered. There is one single thing and when that thing comes up, the mind and heart of each and every Bong tries to be with his/her family and that is the DURGA PUJA.

The 5 days are those days where you won’t find any street, lane, by lane almost any place in the City of Joy without lights. The streets are always filled up with constant hustle and bustle as if there is no end to the day. People from all age groups…from a month old baby to old age home inmates…everyone surrenders oneself to the ocean of madness.

But, over and above, it’s the emotion that plays a major part. Durga puja might be the biggest reason of celebration but for some people, there reside a sensitive, lot of cherished memories with loved ones surrounding the mega annual event. Those loved people might not be with us anymore, but the nostalgia lives on and hits more when the goddess with ten hands and 4 children lands up to lighten and brighten up our lives every year.

Now the question is: why am I writing about this topic?
Well, the point is: Yesterday, a very close relative of my closest friend was narrating some incidents of the past which took place during several Durga Pujas in the ancestral house. They used to conduct plays where everyone in the family, irrespective of age had to mandatorily participate for the audience which comprised families of families (like in-laws of sons, daughters etc. etc.). She was saying that all the front stage show was managed by her but the organizing part and especially the back end details were ably handled by her husband.

All through I was listening to her narration of those hilarious moments, those fun filled time and the never ending nostalgia, I was trying to figure out her emotions while she spoke of her husband. Because He is no more, but as I said, the memories live on.

I know the lady for a fairly good time now and the only thing that makes her stand apart is the smile she carries with her every time. And that’s the biggest thing I admire her for. Maybe, it’s the same Goddess’ will that she can continue her life with the wonderful smile and the memories of her wonderful past.

1 and half months more...and that time of the year will be back...where all types of emotions will again mingle and will make another Durga Puja a wonderful memory for many many other people.